ASP XML Parser Component 

A super-fast, low-memory usage, XML parser specifically designed to be used server-side in ASP scripts. This DOM based parser is many times faster than MSXML, and consumes far less memory. Great for handling large XML data files.
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Chilkat Xml Parser Component 

Offers a high-performance alternative to the standard XML DOM for creating, navigating, and manipulating XML documents. The Chilkat XML parser is faster and less memory intensive, and the API is much simpler.
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